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Tell me honestly, how many times have you cried and wished for something so desperately, only to watch it slip further away?
Then someone like me comes along and suggests you can manifest anything just by wishing for it. You’re probably rolling your eyes, thinking, “Manifest anything? Really?”
I get it. I get the eye rolls when the only things you’ve actually manifested are terrible plot twists that you didn’t even ask for.
But what if I told you that you might be wishing it all was wrong? (Yes, it is not just closing your eyes and asking. It has deep roots now.)
Maybe you’ve been gripping that “want” so tightly that you’ve been left with just that—a never-ending cycle of wanting without seeing it materialize into reality.
Okay, enough already. Let’s see how to manifest anything you want anytime—in three days, one week, one month, or even a year!
1. Get Crystal Clear on What You Want
First things first, you need a vision. Not just any vision—a crystal-clear one! The universe loves specifics.
I mean, you can’t just say, “I want to be rich,” and expect wads of cash to fall from the sky. Instead, think about what “rich” means to you.
Is it having a stable income, being able to travel whenever you want, shopping without seeing the price tags or owning a cozy house in the countryside? The more specific, the better!
I remember when I was aiming for a promotion at work. I didn’t just focus on the title; I imagined the type of projects I wanted to lead, the team I’d work with, and even the coffee I’d sip in the corner office.
So, plan that out for you. Trust me, the universe plays with you all the time.
Quick example: My friend manifested a trip to Goa. Now, she has a flight layover there for 3 hours. I mean, technically, she touched Goa, didn’t she? Please BE AS SPECIFIC AS YOU CAN!!!
2. Forget How It Will Happen, Just Focus on When
Oh, the infamous “how”! It’s what trips us up time and time again. But guess what? The “how” is not your job. The universe will handle that better than you ever could.
Your job is to focus on the “when” and feel the excitement as if it’s already happening!
Imagine waking up on that sunny morning when your dream is finally here. What are you feeling? Joyful? Excited? Relieved?
What’s the morning like? What will you wear? What’s the emotion? Who are all with you to celebrate? How will you celebrate? Is it a get-together at your house? Party at a new restaurant? Is it with your family? Friends? Partner?
There are sooooo many emotions a person feels when they achieve what they really really want. I want you to feel all of them. Because one day or another, you’ll be there. So why wait?
When I was manifesting my dream trip to Japan, I didn’t stress about the logistics or how will I save money for it; I just concentrated on how ecstatic I’d be once I stepped off the plane, in my cute little outfit, holding my Celine bag and smelled that fresh Tokyo air.
3. Visualize the Exact Feelings
Now, it’s time to get those creative juices flowing! Visualization is like creating a movie in your mind where you’re the star. Imagine every detail—what’s the weather like? What clothes are you wearing? What are you doing?
Visualize your desired outcome as if it’s already happening. Engage all your senses in this process to make the visualization vivid and real in your mind. The more real it feels, the better and earlier it will manifest.
It’s these little details that make the whole vision feel real. I’ve found that visualizing right before bed works wonders. That way, my subconscious gets to work while I’m off in dreamland.
But some other ways are scripting, two-cup method, journalling, bay-leaf ritual, manifesting with crystals, 3-6-9 method and you can try what works for you.
4. Take Inspired Action
Manifesting isn’t just wishing on a star—you’ve gotta put in some work! But not just any work… inspired work.
This means doing things that align with your goals, without forcing it.
You can start by taking small steps toward your goal. Every action you take clears the path to what you want.
- Break your goal into manageable tasks.
- Stay consistent. A little progress each day adds up.
- Be open to opportunities—sometimes they come in unexpected ways.
- Want to go to the Maldives? Start saving $200 every month anyhow.
- Want your dream job? Make your resume and start networking on LinkedIn.
- Want to get rich? Start looking for passions or interests you can monetize.
- Want to top the exam? Start revising your lessons daily.
Follow your gut and see where it leads you.
5. Stay Positive & Grateful
Ever noticed how much lighter you feel when you’re in a positive mood? Staying positive isn’t just about putting on a happy face; it’s about truly appreciating what you have.
Think of it like this—how can you expect more blessings if you don’t appreciate the ones you already have? Cultivate gratitude daily, even for the simple things, like your morning coffee or the sun shining through your window.
And when setbacks occur (because they will), keep the faith—sometimes, they’re just stepping stones leading to something greater! Most of the time, they are the Universe testing you to see if you are even capable enough to get what you’re manifesting.
What are some ways to express gratitude, you ask?
- Create a gratitude list of 5-10 items every day or every other day.
- Start your day by dancing to your favorite music.
- Roam around the house while brushing and counting things that you’re blessed with that not many people have.
6. Detach from the Outcome
Here’s a fun twist to the manifesting game—don’t obsess over the outcome! Sounds counterintuitive, huh? But here’s the thing: when you detach, you show the universe you’ve done your part and trust it to do its magic.
Think of it like a birthday wish—once you’ve blown out the candles, you don’t keep checking if it’ll come true.
Remember the time when you wanted something so bad, and when you finally just chilled, everything fell into place. It’s like the universe breathes a sigh of relief and says, “Finally, she has left the building; let’s do this now!”
I’m 100% sure that you’d have countless examples where the more desperately you ran after something, the farther it got from you. And when finally you were like, “I don’t really want it now,” you got it within days!!
Let go of obsessing over the “how” and “when” of your manifestation. Trust that it will come in its own time, in the best way possible. Release any doubts or need for control.
7. Avoid Negative Thoughts
We’ve all been there—life throws a curveball, and suddenly, our brain switches to negative mode. We all know the pesky intruders—doubt and impatience, don’t we?
But letting these thoughts take over can be a huge block in your manifesting path. Because, yep, just like your good thoughts, your bad thoughts can manifest, too.
So, what do you do?
Next time negativity creeps in, ask yourself, “Is this thought serving any good purpose?” More often than not, the answer will be no. Replace it with a vision of what you want and trust that it’s on its way. Reciprocate the negativity into positivity.
8. Recognize Signs from the Universe
The universe loves to chat, but are you listening? Signs come in many forms—a random song lyric, a butterfly fluttering by, or a series of numbers you keep seeing. They’re like breadcrumbs leading you to your manifestation.
And they just deepen your trust in your manifestations. They make your faith stronger.
But more often than not, you’re probably dismissing them as mere coincidences. So, to judge better next time, here are a few signs that your manifestation is coming through!
The next time you spot a sign, acknowledge it. That little nudge is the universe’s way of saying, “You’re on the right path!”
